If you want more
money, you have to first "bless that which you want", as the
Hawaiians say. Noticing what emotions
money elicits from you is the first step
to improving your relationship with it and healing any hurt you've had because
of it.
We're the ones who
choose to associate money with worry, shame, and blame -- then blame it for not
showing up for us.
We all have places
where we go unconscious about money. We
stop paying attention, we overspend, or we hoard.
We re-create our
childhood money story in adulthood… until we do the inner work.
Happier people on
average make approximately $1 million more over the course of their lifetimes.
Money is just
energy, and when we give our life force in a way that contributes to others, we
invite energy to come back to us as an exchange.
Money is a tool --
like a hammer -- one we can use to either build things up or tear them down.
If there is food in
your fridge, if you have shoes and clothes, if you have a bed and a roof,
you're richer than 75 percent of the people in the world. If you have a bank account, money in your
wallet, and some coins in the money box, you're more fortunate than 92 percent
of the people on the planet.
When we, as women,
adopt a humanitarian cause or service-based mission above and beyond our
immediate client base, we rise above our typical income levels.
Stop trying to
figure it out all at once. Your business
will evolve one client, one customer, one sale, or one project at a time.
The voice of
fear--- your own personal gremlins --
simply get louder when you try anything new.
Having a purpose is
a gift, even when it feels hard.
Trying to figure it
all out before you take the first step will not only slow you down but keep you
stuck.
Trust that all your
desires are leading you to the next right step.
Successful people
are successful not because of their talents but because of the choice they made
to show up, over and over and over again.
Your leadership,
skills, and capacity to wo-manifest will get polished in the experiences of
life that are waiting for you.
Failure and success
can be equally scary when you really decide to go for it.
Don't take criticism
from those who are standing on the sidelines.
Don't accept judgment from those who aren't dipping their toes in the
water of risk and transformation.
When you can bring
your wounds into the current moment and dialogue with the parts of you that
want to hold you back, you'll alchemize that pain into fuel for your future.
Pay close attention
to which stories run on replay in your mind.
Watch your emotions and your moods. Notice what you do to lift yourself
up.
When you balance
your vulnerability with your credibility, you become solid in your leadership
and create an energetic field around you that invites the right clients to come
in.
Living big without
boundary-setting, a support system, and conscious self-care practices can set
you up for a truckload of stress.
The secret to not
burning out has no more to do with avoiding work than it does with pushing or
stressing out. The secret lies in your
ability to fully engage and plug in, as well as your equal ability to unplug
and unwind at the end of your day.
Your purpose is like
your side effect to the flowers that bloom when the bees create honey.
The goal of the honeybee is to make honey, but the true and more
spiritual purpose of a honeybee is to aid in flowers blooming. And what's even more of a relief is that your
purpose unfolds without pushing or prying the flowers open; it's a welcomed
side effect to you following your desires.
So as you say YES to what's next for you, your purpose unfolds.
When you take the
time to clean your mind, whether through meditation, quiet time, or an hour
spent in nature, you tap into a timelessness.
You need to have
enough spaciousness in your schedule to access the million-dollar ideas.
Your soul didn't
come here to sit in peaceful feelings all the time.
