Friday 27 October 2017

Turning to One Another by Margaret J Wheatley




All quotes from Margaret's book



We seek consolation in everything except each other. The entire world seems hypnotized in the wrong direction -- encouraging us to love things rather than people, to embrace everything new without noticing what's lost or wrong, to choose fear instead of peace.  We promise ourselves everything except each other.



No matter how beaten down we are -- by poverty, by oppressive leadership, by tragedy -- the human spirit is nearly impossible to destroy.  We humans keep wanting to learn, to improve things, and to care about each other.



The very simple process of council takes us to a place of deep connection with each other.  And, as we slow down the conversation to a pace that encourages thinking, we become wise and courageous actors in our world.



I can only change how I act if I stay aware of my beliefs and assumptions.  Thoughts always reveal themselves in behavior.



There is no power equal to a community discovering what it cares about.



Observe how simple conversations that originate deep in our caring give birth to powerful actions that change lives and restore hope to the future. 



Whatever we know, it is not sufficient.  We can't see enough of the whole.  We can't figure it out alone.  Somebody sees something that the rest of us might need.



We need each other's help to become better listeners.



As we work together to restore hope to the future, we need to include a new and strange ally -- our willingness to be disturbed.  Our willingness to have our beliefs and ideas challenged by what others think.



We can't be creative if we refuse to be confused.  Change always starts with confusion; cherished interpretations must dissolve to make way for the new.



The future comes from where we are now. It materializes from the actions, values, and beliefs we're practicing now.  We're creating the future everyday, but what we choose to do.  If we want a different future, we have to take responsibility for what we are doing in the present.



The gap between knowing and doing is only bridged by the human heart.



Tyranny starts with the belief that some people are more human than others.



We can turn away, or we can turn toward.  Those are the only two choices we have.



It's important to notice that the ritual isn't sacred, it just opens the door to the experience. 



Sacred is nothing special.  It's just life, revealing its true nature.



Sacred experiences always offer gentle reassurance that everything is all right, just as it is.



Conversation is the practice of freedom.  As we think together, as we question things, as we are stirred to act to change things, we exercise our innate right to be free.