Saturday 10 November 2018

The Girl Who Smiled Beads: A Story of War and What Comes After by Clemantine Wamariya and Elizabeth Weil




My own life story feels fragmented, like beads unstrung.  Each time I scoop up my memories, the assortment is slightly different.



Taking care of loved ones in my world was not based on affection.  It was based on the fear of losing them.



That's life in a refugee camp: You're not moving toward anything.  You're just in a horrible groove. You learn skills that you wish you did not know.



Rwandans take the dream world seriously.  When you wake up, people ask, "What did you dream about last night?"  It's like saying good morning.



I want to make people understand that boxing ourselves into tiny cubbies based on class, race, ethnicity, religion -- anything, really -- comes from a poverty of mind, a poverty of imagination.  The world is dull and cruel when we isolate ourselves.  Survival, true survival of the body and soul, requires creativity, freedom of thought, collaboration.