All quotes from
Carol's book
Sometimes we choose to see an obstacle in order to justify not
taking a new step. We voluntarily give
up our power. The obstacle gives us a
good excuse not to face our truth. Most
people hold on to their confusion, never allowing themselves to make any
tentative steps towards change because it’s never “quite the right time”.
Anytime you feel stuck, listen to what you are thinking. Those thoughts are perhaps more responsible
for your outward dilemma than any external obstacle.