Sunday 11 March 2018

Hillbilly Elegy: A Memoir of a Family and Culture in Crisis by JD Vance





All quotes from JD's book




Very few people, Mamaw told me, appreciate how unimportant your fist is when it comes to hitting someone.




Regular church attendees commit fewer crimes, are in better health, live longer, make more money, drop out of high school less frequently, and finish college more frequently than those who don't attend church at all.  MIT economist Jonathan Gruber even found that the relationship was causal: it's not just that people who happen to live successful lives also go to church, it's that church seems to promote good habits. 




There's something powerful about realizing that you've undersold yourself -- that somehow your mind confused lack of effort for inability.




One consequence of isolation is seeing standard metrics of success as not just unattainable but as the property of people not like us.




Social mobility isn't just about money and economics, it's about a lifestyle change.  The wealthy and powerful aren't just wealthy and powerful; they follow a different set of norms and mores.  When you go from working-class to professional-class, almost everything about your old life becomes unfashionable at best or unhealthy at worst.