Wednesday, 16 January 2019

The Yoga of Relationships: A Practical Guide for Loving Yourself and Others by Yogi Amrit Desai




PART TWO



A sense of deficiency builds barriers to protect what we believe is ours. 




Consciously changing breathing patterns releases the conflicting unconscious forces that keep us from being relaxed and present.




Unless we take responsibility, we will never change the source of our unhappiness. We only continue to make more problems in the name of solving them.



  
The desire to change according to personal preferences means there is still someone inside the persona choosing one thing over another. This keeps us trapped in past conditioning. 




Being the Witness gives us permission to surrender, without pushing away what we no longer need. 




There is not one “you”, but a whole crowd of personalities that live within you.  They deafen your ears with their conflicting views and voices. The crowd is made up of many facets of the self-image, each identifying with different memories of the past and expectations of the future, all vying for attention vs the self that lives always in the present.




By not succumbing to passing moods and following your determination, you establish your consciousness, which carries through into all your daily situations.




When you connect with physical sensations through choiceless awareness, it reintroduces you to the self-healing transformative wisdom of the prana body.




Faith and trust are not functions of the mind. Faith is an aspect of the supernatural possibilities within you. The mind is human; but faith is superhuman.




The groundwork of faith is self-trust and courage. 




Self-trust is the basis of developing faith. Fearlessness is the foundation of faith.




Once energy is no longer projected as strategy, it returns to a state of equilibrium where everything remains peaceful and points toward that silent awareness within where all thoughts and perceptions come and go. 




Clarity of mind brings about a relaxation from old patterns.




Instead of trying to explain ourselves, it is better to open our heart to the other before speaking.




How often have we regretted harsh words spoken in an emotional state? The words seem to multiply and take on a life of their own.  Who then is speaking? The insulted self-image or the real you?




Accepting responsibility for our part in any misunderstanding is a quantum leap.




Communicating objectively with others without blame or shame is paramount.