Friday 5 July 2019

The Road to Character by David Brooks





They had to humble themselves in self-awareness if they had any hope of rising up transformed.




Character is not innate or automatic.  You have to build it with effort and artistry.




No one wants to self-deceive, but we rationalize all the time.




Humility is the freedom from the need to prove you are superior all the time.… Humility is infused with lovely emotions like admiration, companionship, and gratitude.




We have seen a broad shift from a culture of humility to the culture of what you might call the Big Me, from a culture that encouraged people to think humbly of themselves to a culture that encouraged people to see themselves as the center of the universe.




The person leading the Well-Planned Life emphasizes individual agency, and asks, “What should I do?” The person leading the Summoned Life emphasizes the context, and asks, “What are my circumstances asking me to do?”.