Every encounter with
another human being is a choice point, offering us the opportunity for profound
spiritual growth.
Tuesday, 20 November 2018
Monday, 19 November 2018
The Art of Stillness: Adventures in Going Nowhere by Pico Iyer
In an age
of speed… nothing could be more invigorating than going slow.
Kindness
is like water, religion is like tea.
It’s a great luxury. It increases
the savor of life. It’s wonderful if you
have it. But you can survive without
tea, and you can’t survive without water.
Everyday
kindness and responsibility is the starting block for every life.
One is
reminded, at a level deeper than all words, how making a living and making a
life sometimes part in opposite directions.
We’ve
lost our Sundays, our weekends, our nights off—our holy days, as some would
have it…. More and more of us feel like emergency room physicians, permanently
on call, required to heal ourselves but unable to find the prescription for all
the clutter.
So much
of our lives takes place in our heads --- in memory or imagination, in
speculation or interpretation.
Finding
what feels like real life, the changeless and inarguable something behind all
our shifting thoughts, is less a discovery than a recollection.
A life of
stillness can sometimes lead not to art but to doubt or dereliction; anyone who
longs to see the light is signing on for many long nights alone in the dark.
You don’t
get over the shadows inside by simply walking away from them.
In an age
of distraction, nothing can feel more luxurious than paying attention.
Sunday, 18 November 2018
How Not to Die: Discover the Foods Scientifically Proven to Prevent and Reverse Disease by Dr Michael Greger
As soon as we stop
eating an artery-clogging diet, our bodies can start healing themselves, in
many cases opening up arteries without drugs or surgery.
Our diet is the
number-one cause of premature death and number-one cause of disability.
Many people assume
that our manner of death is preprogrammed into our genes…. But for most of the
leading causes of death, the science shows that our genes often account for
only 10-20 percent of risk at most.
Smoking cigarettes
is associated with triple the rate of telomere loss.
Three months of
whole-food plant-based nutrition and other healthy changes could significantly
boost telomerase activity, the only intervention ever shown to do so.
A healthy lifestyle
can boost telomerase enzyme activity and reverse cellular aging.
Most of our leading
causes of death and disability are more preventable than inevitable.
The primary reason
diseases tend to run in families may be that diets tend to run in families.
Your family history
does not have to become your personal destiny.
Three hours after
eating a cup of broccoli sprouts, the enzyme that cancers use to help silence
our defenses is suppressed in your bloodstream to an extent equal or greater
than chemotherapy agent specifically designed for that purpose, without the
toxic side effects.
Heart disease may be
a choice.
Given the right
conditions the body heals itself.
Women who consumed
at least one serving of blueberries and two servings of strawberries each week
had slower rates of cognitive decline.
People who drank
fruit and vegetable juices appeared to have a 76 percent lower risk of
developing Alzheimer's disease.
The barrier
separating your bloodstream from the world is many times thinner than a single
sheet of tissue paper.
If you let kids run
around for just six minutes, the levels of immune cells circulating in their
blood increases by nearly 50 percent.
Type 2 diabetes,
previously known as adult-onset diabetes, accounts for 90-95 percent of
diabetes cases.
Type 2 diabetes is
almost always preventable, often treatable, and sometimes even reversible
through diet and lifestyle changes.
A high-fat diet can
impair the body's ability to handle sugar.
Drinking just one
can of soda a day appears to raise the odds of getting fatty liver disease by
45 percent.
Kiwi is one of the
fruits I've prescribed to my patients with insomnia (two an hour before bedtime
appears to significantly improve sleep onset, duration, and efficiency).
If just half of the
U.S. population were to increase fruit and vegetable consumption by a single
serving per day, an estimated twenty thousand cancer cases might be avoided
each year.
When you eat nuts,
you burn more of your own fat.
Saturday, 17 November 2018
A New Buddhist Path: Enlightenment, Evolution and Ethics in the Modern World by David R Loy
When Buddhism has
spread to a new culture, it has interacted with the indigenous traditions of
that society, and the result of their encounter has been something better
suited to that culture.
In developing
nonattachment, one can come to experience serenity and loving-kindness now.
Realize here and now
that there is no "you" that was ever born or can pass away.
Wise people don't
waste their time trying to fix an unreal reality. To awaken is to realize the really Real,
which is something other than its appearances.
Meditation by itself
is sometimes insufficient to resolve deep-rooted psychological problems and
relationship difficulties.
We need such
fictions because our minds do not function in a vacuum but are activated by
their constructs.
Pursuing our own
well-being cannot be sharply distinguished from promoting the well-being of
others.
Rather then
devaluing this world by trying to end rebirth into it, or attempting to make
the best of our lives within it as it is (or as it seems to be), there is a
third possibility: we can "wake up" by realizing something usually
unnoticed about the nature of this world, right here and now, and integrate
that realization into our daily lives.
Another word for
Buddhist enlightenment is liberation: freedom from the delusion of self, and
from the conditioned tendencies that largely compose it.
The solution to our
festering sense of lack is deconstructing and reconstructing the sense of self,
so it doesn't feel so separate.
The self is composed
of mostly habitual ways of thinking, feeling, acting, reacting.
Wisdom lived is
love.
It is not merely
that we are a way that the universe can become self-aware. We are not only creatures that know we are
creatures: we are creatures that create and know that we create. If the cosmos is the creative process, we are
its epicenters.
We are free to
derive the meaning of our lives from delusions about who we are -- from
dysfunctional stories about what the world is and how we fit into it -- or we
can derive that meaning from insight into our nonduality with the world. In either case, there are consequences.
Thich Nhat Hanh has
recently suggested that the next buddha may appear as a sangha --- as a
community rather than as an avatar who will come to save us from ourselves.
Greed, aggression
and delusion are the main sources of evil.
Friday, 16 November 2018
Doing Good Better: How to be an Effective Board Member of a Nonprofit Organization by Edgar Stoesz
Big
people respond to big challenges. Small bait only attracts small fish.
Vision
statements are strategic. They look past
the daily routine and identify something to grow into.
Once a
vision statement is adopted, it becomes the standard against which actions are
measured.
The
challenging reality of our world is that about the time we get comfortable with
what we are doing, it is moving toward extinction.
Mission
is what an organization commits itself to do.
It identifies a clear, compelling, and achievable goal. Whereas vision is a dream, a stretch, mission
is a commitment.
Values
inform how the goal is achieved.
Planning
is the link between what is and what is to be.
It is the gateway to the future.
Planning
is not an event. It is an ongoing
process that identifies what is working well and builds on that, while weeding
out what is no longer contributing to the identified mission.
Planning
can be thought of as walking a dream into existence.
Whereas a
long-range plan is vision, the annual work plan is a commitment.... The annual
work plan establishes specific goals and activities by which the vision will be
realized. It states what will be done (outcomes), who will do it, where, how,
by when, and with what. Its progress can
be monitored and measured.
Committees...do
not act for the board. They prepare issues for the board to then act on.
If
someone brings issues that are not ready for board action, consider it raw meat
and send it back to the kitchen!
There is
a place for dissent, but dissent can also be a little more than stubborn
negativism.
Think of
policy as an instruction to the future, based on experience.
Collaborators
willingly risk divergent points of view in their search for the best solution.
Some
directors resist fundraising because they view it as begging. Fundraising is
secondarily about raising money. It is
first about raising friends for the cause.
The first
responsibility of a leader...is to define reality. Leaders accept the present
as their starting point.
The best
leaders are service driven, not power driven.
Leadership
requires people who are able to see and believe in things before they exist.
A leader
must be bold and ready to trade the present, with which it is comfortable, for
something that has the potential to be better.
Leadership
involves managing where there is no map and sometimes even no road.
To get
improved results, you need some new thinking, and that is most likely to come
from new people.
Thursday, 15 November 2018
The Death & Life of the Great Lakes by Dan Egan
A normal lake, if
things get really rough, might tip a boat.
A Great Lake can swallow freighters almost three times the length of a
football field; the lakes' bottoms are littered with an estimated 6,000
shipwrecks.
Erosion has been
having its way with Niagara Falls. It is
expected the falls will disappear in about 50,000 years.
Chicago workers
reported within the month [July 1968] that they alone had disposed of enough
alewives [river herrings] to cover two football fields -- 500 feet high.
Winds churning deep
cold water from the bottom can drop Great Lakes temperatures by as much as 20
degrees in just a matter of minutes.
The current pulsing
through Lake St Clair is so strong that if you were to hop in an inflatable
raft at the top of the lake you'd flush out the other side in about two days --
without having to paddle a stroke.
In the early 1970s
two-thirds of America's lakes, rivers and coastal waters were unsafe for
fishing or swimming.
Lake Erie, which
holds only 2 percent of the overall volume of Great Lakes water, is home to
about 50 percent of Great Lakes fish.
Cleveland had
incorporated as a city just eight weeks before the Olin family pulled into town
behind their four horses. What struck
young Chauncey most about the place was not Clevelanders' industriousness but
the old-growth poplars with smokestack-like trunks so tall that their lowest
branches were still 70 feet off the ground.
[Lake] Superior's
temperature bump, for example, means on hot summer nights oceanographer [Jay]
Austin can take his boy swimming at a beach near downtown Duluth, something
most people would never do a generation ago because the lake stayed so cold
year-round that even summer swimmers risked hypothermia.
Wednesday, 14 November 2018
Penetrating Wisdom: The Aspiration of Samantabhadra by Dzogchen Ponlop
All that appears and
exists, all of samsara and nirvana, has one ground, two paths and two results.
The connate
ignorance is a distracted, mindless cognition.
The labeling ignorance is holding self and other to be two. The two
ignorances, connate and labeling, are the ground of the confusion of all
beings.
From the emergence
of subtle clinging coarse habit gradually develops.
Beings are tormented
by attachment to the pleasant.
Through the
emergence of a subtle, fearful cognition of externally-apparent objects the
habit of aversion grows, coarse enmity, beating, and killing are born.
Even if you don't
have complete faith and trust, it is important to have some sense of openness
to the possibility.
The manifestations
we experience as outside appearance are a simple manifestation of luminous
mind. This luminosity, the clarity
nature of our mind, gets to a point of intensity. When we don't recognize that intensity as the
clarity of mind, it is projected outside and duality begins.
Buddhas manifest in
accordance with the situation. They
manifest in whatever way they can in order to tame the suffering of sentient
beings.
Connate ignorance is
actually the nature of not recognizing.
Unclarity is the
nature of doubt.
If you conquer just
one enemy, your aggression, it is like conquering all the objects of this
anger.
The main thing that
we need to learn is how to be in whatever state we are in.
The main problem of
jealousy is lack of appreciation.
Tuesday, 13 November 2018
Money: A Love Story: Untangle Your Financial Woes & Create the Life You Really Want by Kate Northrup
The first stage to
becoming financially free is to tell the truth of your story to yourself, and
feel your feelings around it.
You have to feel it
to heal it.
Our power in any
moment lies in our ability to get into agreement with what's happening -- to
fall in love with your story. The more
we push up against something, the more we find it wrong, the more we wish it
were different, the more powerless we are to create the reality that we desire.
The more we embrace
the here and now and find ways to appreciate it, and perhaps even be grateful
for it, the more power we have to move forward.
Part of claiming our
freedom in any area of our lives is looking at our stories through a lens of
seeing the positive lessons, taking responsibility for our part, and finding
ways to grow as a result of our experiences.
When you find
yourself feeling victimy and whiny and hear yourself say the words "I
can't afford that", remember: it's not about the money. If you really wanted it you would figure out
a way to get it. If it were that
VALUABLE to you, you would make it happen.
When we sacrifice
our own well-being in the hopes that our sacrifice will help someone else, we
just get two people who are living sub-optimal lives.
Monday, 12 November 2018
God Saves Texas: A Journey Into the Soul of the Lone Star State by Lawrence Wright
The number of Texans
is projected to double by 2050, to 54.4 million, almost as many people as
California and New York combined.
Texas has
practically no laws regulating exotic animals.
The Humane Society
of the United States estimates that there are more tigers living in captivity
in Texas than the three thousand that are thought to be living in the
wild. Some are kept as pets in
backyards.
For the first time
ever, the United States holds more proved oil reserves than either Saudi Arabia
or Russia. More than half of the U.S.
total is in shale.
The central fact
about boom societies is that they inevitably go bust.
Nebraska has more
millionaires per capita than Texas.
Houston is the only
major city in America without zoning laws.
You can build pretty much anything you want anywhere you want.
Most of the day was spent learning the Texas general firearms laws, which are
more nuanced and confusing than I expected.
One can't carry a gun in amusement parks, hospitals, sporting events,
school buses, bars, a polling place, a court, a correctional facility, or
"within 1000 feet of a correctional facility designated as a place of
execution on a day of execution if proper notice is posted".
Texas has the
highest rate of uninsured people in the nation.
There are more than
six hundred varieties of bird species in Texas, a greater number than any other
state, thanks to its biological diversity and the fact that it sits in the
middle of the central migratory flyway.
Imagine the wealth
and power that would have been Mexico's had Texas remained a part of it.
Bullets from
gunfights in Juarez [Mexico] fly over the border. In 2012, a woman was pushing a stroller in
downtown El Paso when a stray shot hit her in the leg. Bullets from Mexico also struck a building at
the University of Texas branch in El Paso, and another broke a picture frame in
the city hall.
I suppose many
people live in places they're not especially attached to, or that they actually
hate. Marriages are like that as
well. There's a high level of discontent
even in enduring relationships, together with long periods of stagnation and
moments of shocking intimacy. You
acquire a private library of memories.
Arguments are born that last for the rest of your lives among the
touchstones of joy and revelation. The
commonalities draw you together or suffocate you.
Sunday, 11 November 2018
15 Things You Should Give Up to Be Happy: An Inspiring Guide to Discovering Effortless Joy by Luminita D Saviuc
The story of your
past doesn't have to become the story of your life.
The moment you
decide that you have had enough of everything, enough of stress and anxiety,
enough of anger and resentment, enough of struggle, lack, pain and poverty,
enough of tears, heartbreaks, self-destructive thoughts, behaviors and
relationships and enough of all that is negative and toxic, that will be the
moment you will finally be ready to take charge of your life and take the
necessary steps toward a better and happier life.
Your past doesn't
have to equal your future, unless you want it to.
If you cling to the
past and keep on using it as an excuse for not moving on with your life, then
yes, your future will be similar to your past.
We cling to the past
because the past gives us a sense of identity; it makes us who we are, or at
least that's what we think. Because we
haven't yet learned how to be present and engaged in our day-to-day lives, we continue
to craft our lives from a place of limitations -- the past -- instead of doing
it from a place of infinite choices and possibilities -- the present
moment.
The moment you
become attached to how things should be, how people and life should treat you
and how your happiness should be packaged and delivered your way, you create a
lot of resistance and unhappiness in your life.
Don't let your mind
trick you into thinking that forgiveness is an act of weakness.
When you get your
sense of identity from your past hurts, your wounds and your struggles, it can
be quite impossible to acknowledge the fact that maybe you are using what
happened in the past as an excuse for why you are not living a happier and more
meaningful life in the present.
Whenever you choose
to use all kinds of excuses for why you can't be, do or have something, you are
in fact moving away form your true power, disconnecting from your true self and
building a false identity for yourself.
Relationships aren't
about making an unhappy person happy nor are they about making an unloved
person feel loved. Relationships are
about sharing the love and happiness that is already present within you with
each other, growing, improving and evolving together.
The life you are now
living is the result of all the thoughts you have thought up until this
moment.
Even though things
might not always go the way we want them to go, and even though life might not
always give us the experiences we want to have, it doesn't mean that life isn't
offering us the experiences we need to
have -- the experiences that are beneficial for the evolution of our
consciousness, the growth of our own souls and the expansion of our whole
beings.
Saturday, 10 November 2018
The Girl Who Smiled Beads: A Story of War and What Comes After by Clemantine Wamariya and Elizabeth Weil
My own life story
feels fragmented, like beads unstrung.
Each time I scoop up my memories, the assortment is slightly different.
Taking care of loved
ones in my world was not based on affection.
It was based on the fear of losing them.
That's life in a
refugee camp: You're not moving toward anything. You're just in a horrible groove. You learn
skills that you wish you did not know.
Rwandans take the
dream world seriously. When you wake up,
people ask, "What did you dream about last night?" It's like saying good morning.
I want to make
people understand that boxing ourselves into tiny cubbies based on class, race,
ethnicity, religion -- anything, really -- comes from a poverty of mind, a
poverty of imagination. The world is
dull and cruel when we isolate ourselves.
Survival, true survival of the body and soul, requires creativity,
freedom of thought, collaboration.
Friday, 9 November 2018
When Awareness Becomes Natural by Sayadaw U Tejaniya
You can know or see
the mind through various functions – knowing, thinking, experiencing, feeling,
wanting, focusing.
We have
to work to be aware, to remain aware, but we mustn’t use the awareness to
change the experience.
You
either have feelings, or they have you.
By simple
observation with a calm and aware mind, we will soon see the mind as nature,
not “I”, not self, not personal.
Objects are just
objects, not personal, just nature.
Think of
our experiences as nature. Nature is not
personal. Nature is just a process of cause and effect.
Don’t be
a gong-following yogi; look at your motivations and attitudes and ask the
question “Why am I doing this?” Be alive to your being, your own experience.
Remember
that every experience is fine. Nothing
is actually wrong; nothing is a disturbance.
Mindfulness
meditation is not about stopping a process that is happening; it is about
understanding the reality or truth of the process.
Remember
that it doesn’t matter how many times the mind thinks, wanders off, or gets
annoyed about something, it is ok, just as long as you can become aware of this
.
If greed
arises, just recognize “this is greed”, every time it arises. Your job is not
to prevent greed.
Delusion
is the defilement that tells us “this is fearful” or “this is hateful” or “this
is beautiful”.
Delusion
does two things: first it camouflages reality, and then it gives us the
illusion to take as reality what we are thinking reality is. It hides what is real and then throws up an
illusion for us to see and fools us into believing that is the reality.
Look at
consequence and the sequence of events leading up to what is happening right
now.
[Karma]
is not a reward or punishment dished out by a higher authority; it is not
stamped into our destiny; it is not fate. It is our own actions acting out on
our selves.
Greed will always be
there wanting you to have a better experience.
Because our bodies
are bound by nature, we are always going to experience aches, pains, sickness,
and disease. How our mind reacts to
these afflictions determines whether we have cause or suffer or not.
When we
start bringing awareness to the way we live, it soon becomes apparent that we
really have little understanding of ourselves or the environment we live in; we
are facing a constant battle just to maintain a little happiness in our lives.
The
problems that we create out of fear, boredom, loneliness, routine, despair, and
repetition (to name just a few) are the reality we face.
It is
only a quiet, dedicated, and meditative mind that can penetrate and find true
understanding into these difficulties that we create in our lives, and from
this see through the confusion and chaos that can dominate our lives.
Do not
limit yourself. Always leave the door
open for new and deeper understandings.
No matter how experience you are or how much more knowledge you have
than everyone else, never be satisfied with the understandings or depth of
insight you have experienced. Wisdom is
limitless. There is always room for
more.
The
innate nature of our mind is wakefulness, where nothing is created; there are
no conditions, just bare awareness.
Your work
is to keep the mindfulness continuous.
Let any
experience arise.
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